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Compassion literally means to feel with, to suffer with. Everyone
is capable of compassion, and yet everyone tends to avoid it
because it's uncomfortable. And the avoidance produces psychic
numbing -- resistance to experiencing our pain for the world and
other beings.
It had been raining for…
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She looked at the photograph of her son. He would always be
seven years old, tow haired and missing two front teeth. Grasping
the framed photo tighter in her quivering hands, so tight that the
corners of the brass colored left impressions in her flesh, she
looked at the American flag covered…
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Once upon a time, there lived a man who wanted to achieve
everything he was capable of achieving. He was obsessed with this
desire. He ate, slept, and walked with one and only dream: to die,
having accomplished every single thing he was able to accomplish.
There were so many things he could…
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Oh goodness, here we go again. A
mom writes a post about how she's exhausted, or annoyed, or
snappish, or
drained-of-all-energy-and-wishing-for-a-Bermuda-vacation, and
before you know it, a parade of other mothers are lining up to
criticize her for not loving her kids enough. Ladies, I don't… Read More »
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One of the more demoralizing
aspects of the economic downturn is feeling like, even if you
haven't been laid off or had your salary slashed, you're
probably pretty expendable. So the impact negative criticism can
have on your job performance -- and your ego -- is often magnified.
Small slights carry more weight, and a poor performance review can
seem insurmountable.
But it's important to learn from criticism, even the negative
kind. Granted, some things -- like office gossip, for example --
are detrimental no matter how you dice it. But, for the most part,
there are ways to glean the positive out of the negative. These
tips work whether the person on your case is your boss, your
co-worker, or
even your teenager (yes, it's true: Parenting takes people
skills).
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By Jane Powell - www.MeditationsForWomen.com
“Be your own unconditional friend.” Are you your own best friend?
Sadly, most women are their own worst enemy. Who needs enemies when
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