Why we surf for sex: Real women fess up

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  Posted by M22 Tue Nov 3, 2009 3:22pm PST

  If your man needs to watch other women, he's just not that into you.

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  Posted by KittyKat Tue Nov 3, 2009 8:40pm PST

  I wish it were that easy to say M22 but its not. Over half of the men in this country look at porn even when they are in a good relationship with a decent women.

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  Posted by urassismine2 Tue Nov 3, 2009 8:45pm PST

  I disagree with M22. Males are visual. When we have beautiful women in our eye view, passing in front of us in "look at me, mode", what do you expect us t do. Act like an ostrich an dig deep in a hole somewhere? The issue is the insecurity of your own incompetent feelings related to your own inability to compete with what you feel is less attention to your neediness. Just for a moment in time, the spotlight isn't on your infamy as a woman with a man in tow. We are partners, in a partnership. If a woman can't manage her own relevance, how can she expect a man to stay centered on her. Again, the blame game goes on, an men are the cause of her angst. How about the competitve angling of each woman who puts on that make-up, so well versus you, who didn't make sure that your make-up was working before you came out, into the arena to begin with. I mean, that is your job,...right?

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  Posted by urassismine2 Tue Nov 3, 2009 8:48pm PST

  Kittykat,..Porn has nothing to do with it, except women need to fess up also. They look at porn more than they want to tell it! Yup!

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  Posted by Sara P. Tue Nov 3, 2009 8:49pm PST

  My man and I will look at it together..it makes us hot for each other that much more.

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  Posted by Rose Tue Nov 3, 2009 11:52pm PST

  i dont know if my boyfriend watches it, but i wanna try watching it with him sometime and i dont know how to ask without him thinking am pervy.

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  Posted by The Tedster Wed Nov 4, 2009 12:00am PST

  Rose, just tell him you're curious and would like to see some. Just be aware that most porn is male oriented and not the most romantic stuff ever.

  Also, in terms of mutual fantasies I'm not sure there are any because yours bore us and ours offend you (ladies) in general.

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  Posted by killer bitch Wed Nov 4, 2009 3:15am PST

  I look at porn and so does my man. I got freaked when I saw his laptop had an ungodly amount of porn. but Then I thought the only reason he had that much porn was bc he was over seas. I would like to watch it with him but we are into TOTALLY different categories. I don not understand why women think watching porn is so grotesque.

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  Posted by LynneB Wed Nov 4, 2009 3:46am PST

  your assismine your name alone proves you to be a mysogynist if i were a csi i would profile you in sex crime cases

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  Posted by mash2 Wed Nov 4, 2009 3:52am PST

  M22's comment is either a joke (not that funny) or s/he has NO idea whatsoever about how men are wired, in which case, it's kinda sad, cuz' s/he is likely gonna experience a lot of unnecessary unhappiness as a result of this ignorance. Look at it this way: in general, porn (or other women) is to men what shoes are to women.

  What woman would ever say: "If she's gotta look at more shoes, she's just not that into shoes she already has." The fact is, women love 'porn' every bit as do men -- they prefer a different medium: text, voice. Once the whole mood thing is established, watch out: she WILL enjoy feelin' NASTEH... but call it "Romance". :-D

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