So. Wednesday the 17th I received a text message from my husband: "I'm moving Friday it's over." We have been making plans for Halloween and such, just celebrated our anniversary at the end of August and his birthday is in about 3 weeks. He is leaving... at least from what I have gathered through text. It's since I will not pack up our family of four and move into his mom's spare bedroom. We're not getting evicted or anything. He says he loves me but then asks if I'm going to fight him for our daughter? (My son is his step-son, so no fighting there.) He won't really speak to me and this was dropped like a bomb. I'm 22 and I have 2 children ages 2 and 6. I'm so lost.
Thank you for your comments... I'm not arguing with him. I'm letting him go. I'm just going to sit down with him later and discuss how we will separate everything. If he wants to go he can go. I love him so much, but it takes more than one to be in a relationship. Thank you again for the comments. :)
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Posted by Thu Sep 18, 2008 9:40am PDT
Report AbuseI WOULD LEAVE HIM ALONE RIGHT NOW AND ACT LIKE YOU DIDNT HEAR ANYTHING. MAYBE HE IS JUST UPSET OR SOMTHING OR SOMEBODY IS OBVIOUSLY MANIPULATING HIM . IM SORRY SWEETIE BUT LET IT SIT THERE FOR A WHILE... LET HIM THINK ! AND REALIZE THINGS .DON'T ARGUE.....TRUST ME IT WORKS .....
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Posted by Thu Sep 18, 2008 9:57am PDT
Report Abusesometime that works most of the time you should give it 2 the lord let him give you the strength after all God will never put more on you than you can hanld
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Posted by Thu Sep 18, 2008 10:18am PDT
Report AbuseAWWW im sorry! He sounds very immature. You do your thing, and be the independant woman you are! and fight for your daughter. She doesnt need to live with a bad example like him!
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Posted by Thu Sep 18, 2008 11:15am PDT
Report AbuseRegardless of whether he goes or whether he says, you deserve the truth. I would confront him and ask for the real reason for this pathetic excuse for a conversation! How dare he treat the woman that bore him a child so thoughtlessly! The least he can do is give you an adequate explanation. He can't stop someone from making REALLY bad decisions, but you can control how you let it affect you and your children. Just remember, how he is treating you is not a reflection on you, it is a reflection on his shortcomings. You be strong for the kids. I have an 8 year old and a 4 year old and I am a single mom too. I will be praying for you.
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Posted by Thu Sep 18, 2008 11:31am PDT
Report AbuseWOW! He is a big coward. This texting crap is getting wicked retarded. Grown people are acting like they are in the fifth grade passing a note to break up with their "girlfriend". Big people shouldn't act like that! He needs to grow up, seriously. If he brings it up, say "what text?, I didn't get a text." Tell him he must have sent it to his girlfriend by mistake. He's a JackAss!
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Posted by Thu Sep 18, 2008 12:03pm PDT
Report AbuseGirl your still young dont worrie about it my baby daddy left me and my son for my best friend and i met my husban whos the seond best thing thats happen to me (my son always comes first)Just do what you do for your kids and if he wants to miss out on the best thing that happen to him let it be shack it off
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Posted by Thu Sep 18, 2008 12:22pm PDT
Report Abuses--- I get that everytime the boyfriend has a bug up his butt. And yes he texts it what a chicken. Let him go. Man are such babies!!!!
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Posted by Thu Sep 18, 2008 12:31pm PDT
Report Abusehe is being very cowardly, i know that you just need to pray and turn this over to God. I think you will be ok, but if he comes back in a few days, you need to lay down the line with him, tell him how badly this hurt you, and you will not get over this soon. I will say a big prayer for you and your children. fight for your kids, they need you. They need both of you, but little kids really need their mommies.
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Posted by Thu Sep 18, 2008 1:08pm PDT
Report AbuseWhat a punk ass b---- ! You are so better off without him. So will your daughter.
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