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Monday, November 30, 2009

UGH! Stupid parents!!

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Why do parents always make life a living hell?!?! I've got this guy that Ive been in love with since we met but then he moved away once when we were dating(stupid foster care!!) and now he's bacnk and my parents dont trust him and told me to break off the relationship! WTF?!? Like hell I will...so we txtd behind my parents back...but now they are checking my records...grr...idk how to hide them now??? *anybody got any ideas???* so I've resorted to other methods of talking to him...its not the same though...he's not there to kiss me goodnite or tell me he loves me b4 I go off to bed....I miss him soo much...love is so hard...but I'm 17 now and he's already 18 and I'll be 18 in a few months...is there anyway that they can keep me from talking to him? I don't think there is but im not sure...? Like we want to get married...this time its realy not like with all these other idiots i've been with...this could really last forever! =/ I hate that we can't be together. ='(  Does anybody know how I can see this guy without their knowing? Or anyway that I can talk to him without them finding the records on my cell phone? I wish I knew some way that everything would be ok...Please help! -Always & Forever- Bells
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  • Ivelis's Avatar
    Posted by Ivelis Thu Oct 29, 2009 7:57am PDT

    sorry, but really there isn't a way. If your parents wanna find out they will, trust me. Try looking at your boyfriend through your parents eyes, like why dont they like him or trust him, for whatever reason they have try to rule it out so they can see how great he really is, but if its true then maybe you shouldnt be with him after all cuz it can backfire and you'll find yourself with someone you really dont want to be with later in your life. If you and your bf have a healthy relationship then fine, but respect what your parents want for you like getting home at a certain time after a date. It will show that your responsible and can trust you. If your relationship with your bf is as great as you say it is yall will stick it out thru the rough times, if its meant to be yall can go thru anything and let me tell you parents will make it hell.

    My dad didnt want me with a boyfriend until i was 18 and then i had to bring him to the house so he can approve of him (very old fashioned)instead tho we started going out wen we were 15. My dad was majorly pissed and tried to do everything to break us up, instead it brought us closer cuz we cared so much for each other. We are 18 and still going strong! my dad doesnt even say anything to me anymore about it. Plus i havent done anything stupid like get pregnant or fail school so i showed him i can still do what i gotta do while in love. Make sure you stick to your priorities (school, career) and him too if yall wanna get married when yall older. Remember your still young, both of you, think about the money you'll need for a wedding and a place to live together first if yall really serious. TRY TO GET YOUR PARENTS TO SEE HIM IN A POSITIVE WAY AND EVERYTHING WELL GET BETTER!!!

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