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Saturday, November 28, 2009

Take it slow or drop the bomb?

I have been a lesbian since I was 15 and I'm only 18 now, but I've been through plenty of relationships. The year I came out to all of my friends was the same year I started to like this girl. I had always liked her even until now, but she always claimed that she was straight and blew me off in a dignified sort of way for her own sake I'm guessing. Well, recently we started talking and she expressed to me that she is now bisexual and had been with one girl for the school year, but was now single. She tells me that she is sorry for the way she treated me and that she was just young and didn't know how to handle being gay with her friends knowing so she didn't tell anyone she was. I'm just not sure wether to go for it and tell her how I feel exactly or just leave it the way it is and be friends with her and just wait for the right moment to pop up. I don't want to scare her away especially since she only recently told me of her orientation. But I do want to be with her really badly. Take it slow or drop the bomb?
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  • Nageela's Avatar
    Posted by Nageela Wed Aug 5, 2009 9:32pm PDT

    in the first place why be a lesbian? God made only a man and a woman. Period. Obey the CREATOR! This is evil tendencies. Beware! Heavens judgment is near lest you find yourself

    out of the balance. God loves the sinner but hates SIN. REPENT... GOD promises strength to those who claim it. TRY HIM!

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  • me's Avatar
    Posted by me Thu Aug 6, 2009 12:56am PDT

    WHY SHOULD YOU JUDGE WHO WE LOVE? I BET THERE IS MORE ABUSIVE RELATIONSHIPS IN MAN AND WOMAN

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  • me's Avatar
    Posted by me Thu Aug 6, 2009 12:58am PDT

    WE WILL ALL SEE OUR JUDGEMENT DAY SOMETIME BUT YOU MUST REMEMBER WE REPENT TO GOD NOT YOU AND GOD IS FORGIVING

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  • me's Avatar
    Posted by me Thu Aug 6, 2009 1:02am PDT

    KATELYNF, TAKE IT SLOW GIRL IF ITS MEANT TO BE IT WILL HAPPEN IN ITS OWN TIME NO NEED TO RUSH INTO ANY RELATIONSHIP

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  • L Craig's Avatar
    Posted by L Craig Thu Aug 6, 2009 1:29am PDT

    Do what you gotta do! Dont worry what other people say or think about you because there is only one God and the odds are that those people judging have never met the man! You have to live ur live for yourself and cant worry about others because when it comes down to it they are non-educated ignorant judgmental people which most of these people are OLD school and haven't realized what year or planet they are living in! :) Drop da bomb if she runs it wasnt meant to be anyway! Good luck

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  • L Craig's Avatar
    Posted by L Craig Thu Aug 6, 2009 1:34am PDT

    How ignorant is this person that left that first post? Wow they are probably 80 years old and forgot how things in life do change.. get with the program! FYI you can love God and be Lesbian WOOHOO dont be afraid! How exactly do you know what goes on up in heaven anyway? Haha funny how people think they are related to Jesus Christ himself!

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  • jena's Avatar
    Posted by jena Thu Aug 6, 2009 2:05am PDT

    i would take it slow she where she at in a month or two but if it is ment to be it will happen i went through the same thing earlier this year donk give up but dont scare her off...so sweet u go girl oh and remember a girl know what a girl wants lol good luck

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  • Cortni's Avatar
    Posted by Cortni Thu Aug 6, 2009 9:10am PDT

    Nageela you are a total and complete idiot...don't bother blogging your homophobias on shine this place is for open minded real people. How dare you judge anyone or presume to know what God has in store for anyone...do you know him directly? Has he told you that this is wrong you ignorant fool? For all you know God could be gay and might strike you dead right now for insulting his sexuality. No sex took place to create Jesus maybe God was showing a way for Gays and Lesbians to realize they can have babies without having sex with a sex they find unappealing. My one and true point is we have no idea what God likes or dislikes and we can interpete a book that wasn't something he wrote in many ways like I just did was Mary the virign of purity or a Lesbian that wanted to have a baby and God artificially enseminated her?

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  • Kiana's Avatar
    Posted by Kiana Thu Aug 6, 2009 9:31am PDT

    i think u should tell her how u feel because u never know if she might feel the same way about u, u will never know if u don't say anything good luck......

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  • lovable's Avatar
    Posted by lovable Sat Aug 8, 2009 10:26pm PDT

    i have a girl who i love so much but see act like nothing wrong in are relationship but we dont kiss we dont talk see is textingother women telling them she like them and want them but she telles me that see loves me what should i do

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