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Saturday, November 28, 2009

"Bon Appetit!" or Good Life

Donald Van de Mark
Success Television

I just saw Nora Ephron’s “Julie and Julia.” I was charmed and delighted by Meryl Streep’s portrayal of the cooking icon, Julia Child. But

The good life

The good life

even more so, I was impressed with Julia Child: her fearlessness, her egalitarian nature, her global outlook, her expressiveness, her joy, her sense of humor, her disregard for convention, her determination, her hearty appetites, her love-soaked marriage, her self-directed life… I could go on and on.

In an interview that Streep did in the U.K. with John Hiscock, she talked about the woman she portrays:  “Julia’s approach to her day was one of energy and appetite and a blanket determination not to let troubles get you down. It’s a great quality and she really had it… When you talk about passion, Julia Child just didn’t have it for her husband or cooking; she had a passion for living. What was compelling about her was her joie de vivre and her unwillingness to be bogged down in negativity. She loved being alive and that’s inspirational in itself.”

Why and how was this six foot two inch, far-from-pretty, diplomat’s wife so in love with life? I believe she was for several reasons, not the least of which is that she was, a success. But she was a success at life and love as well as cooking and writing because she shared several of the personality traits of the psychologically healthiest human beings. I touched on some of them above, but here’s a more explicit list:

1. She and Paul were global not national or provincial in outlook
2. She treated everyone with a healthy dose of respect, and idolized no one
3. She was comfortable, even excited with the unknown
4. She was a good animal with hearty, shameless (in the good way) appetites
5. She recognized the reality of all situations (remember her comment to her sister as they gazed at themselves dressed up for dinner!)

Read more for the other five on the list.

Donald Van de Mark has interviewed hundreds of leaders in business and politics including: Andrew Weil, MD, former U.S. Senator Bill Bradley, Jack Welch, Starbucks' Howard Schultz and Intel's Andy Grove, in his nearly 3 decades as a correspondent and anchor at CNN, CNBC and public television. He integrates practical tips from these great leaders to provide a riveting motivational speech on the personality traits of successful people. Donald is also the host of the corporate training video, The Wisdom of Caring Leaders. 

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