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Thursday, November 26, 2009

Louisiana judge denies interracial couple marriage license--why are we surprised?

Last week, reports surfaced that Keith Bardwell, a white judge in Tangipahoa Parish in Louisiana, refused to issue a marriage license to Beth Humphrey, a white woman, and Terence McKay, a black man. The judge, it seems, just doesn't accept the idea of an interracial union, he never has, and, honestly, he probably never will.

“I’m not a racist [Ed note: Heh.]. I just don’t believe in mixing the races that way,” Bardwell told the Associated Press on Thursday. He went on to explain how he has "piles and piles" of black friends. Seriously.

Then, ignoring overwhelming evidence to the contrary--Barack Obama, Derek Jeter, and Tiger Woods to name just a few--Bardwell shared that his main problem with mixed-race nuptials is the offspring they produce: "I don't do interracial marriages because I don't want to put children in a situation they didn't bring on themselves," he also told the AP. "In my heart, I feel the children will later suffer."

Oof.

Since last week's media explosion, all sorts of folks have been (rightfully) outraged, and calls for Bardwell's resignation are mounting. Those demanding he step down or be removed by the Louisiana Judiciary Committee include Louisiana Republican Governor Bobby Jindal, Democratic Senator Mary Landrieu, the NAACP, and The American Civil Liberties Union. In addition, according the New York Daily News, Bardwell is currently being sued by one of the four interracial couples he refused to marry.

Commenting on the situation, Bill DeBlasio, a Democratic politician from New York and the patriarch of his own interracial family, had this to say:

"In a time where the American people made history by electing President Barack Obama , this blatant act of bigotry represents a disturbing return to racial inequalities of the past. Even worse, it sends a heinous message that there is something wrong with families, like mine, which are created from different backgrounds. No one practicing racism should be in any position of public trust."

DeBlasio has a seriously good point, obviously, as does everyone who has spoken out against the Louisiana judge. Bardwell's blatant racism is disturbing, outdated, and repulsive, sure, but is it really shocking? Regardless of the fact that America has a black president and, over the past few decades, we've made major strides toward eradicating discrimination and bigotry, racism still lurks in all kinds of corners of our society. Whether the evidence is overt, such as the rise in racially-based hate crimes against Hispanics, or more subtle, like the ridiculous, racially-charged Birthers movement, it's pretty obvious Americans have a long way to go before we're a nation that truly embraces all ethnicities.

Richard Loving and Mildred Jeter

Richard Loving and Mildred Jeter

Remember that it was just 42 years ago that the U.S. Supreme Court overturned the ban against whites marrying nonwhites. On June 12, 1967, Richard Loving and Mildred Jeter ( the Virginia couple who filed the suit, and who had spent a year in jail for their intermarriage--JAILED for marrying a person you love!), were returned to their home and allowed to remain wedded in peace. After this landmark case, interracial unions became legal in all states, but weirdness surrounding mixed-race romance stuck around: Consider the fact that the South Carolina school Bob Jones University only dropped their ban on interracial dating in 2000. Just nine years ago.

Now, I firmly believe that men like Keith Bardwell should be removed from positions of authority. But, I don't think this will come close to solving our generations-old racism problem.

Why? Perhaps the best explanation comes from the Louisiana judge himself, who told CNN: "It's kind of hard to apologize for something that you really and truly feel down in your heart you haven't done wrong"

I mean, you can't teach an old dog new tricks, right? Especially when he really loves and believes in the old ones.
CBS News, CNN, SF Gate





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  • Matt's Avatar
    Posted by Matt Mon Oct 19, 2009 6:48am PDT

    I heard about this and i wasn't shocked..which is really sad. There is still isnt equality in this country. My 2 friends that have been together for 5 years cannot get married because they happen to be both female.

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  • springtime's Avatar
    Posted by springtime Mon Oct 19, 2009 7:00am PDT

    What is sad is he truly believes this, and so that ( in his mind) makes him an expert on love between two people. People like him are dangerous in more ways than one.

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  • Em24's Avatar
    Posted by Em24 Mon Oct 19, 2009 7:04am PDT

    how could you do that? I hope they run off get married and then rub it in his face. I would have slapped him if he would have refused to marry my friends or myself with someone else just because we were different races. What a jerk.

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  • CrazyDoug's Avatar
    Posted by CrazyDoug Mon Oct 19, 2009 7:11am PDT

    This is apalling. He certainly should be removed from office.

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  • liliflowers's Avatar
    Posted by liliflowers Mon Oct 19, 2009 7:16am PDT

    This makes me furious!

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  • kim r's Avatar
    Posted by kim r Mon Oct 19, 2009 7:24am PDT

    Not surprized.

    Why should I be? Idiots have existed in the past, and will exist in the future.

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  • 's Avatar
    Posted by Mon Oct 19, 2009 7:29am PDT

    i think that is crazy u should be able to marry who u want when u want and yer he is racist its not his decision to say what they kids will go through he's not gone raise them or have to explain it to them

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  • SILENT KNIGHT's Avatar
    Posted by SILENT KNIGHT Mon Oct 19, 2009 7:29am PDT

    Welcome to the dirty south. We have the in your face secrets that get darker every year. Racism is normal here because it doesn't exist on t.v. You might here a couple of stories because it would enrage different races of people in the worst and best ways to hear the whole truth.

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  • Jeri's Avatar
    Posted by Jeri Mon Oct 19, 2009 7:32am PDT

    My girlfriend is bi-racial and i love her to death. she didnt have any problems growing up and she happens to be a very beautiful and intelligent woman. It seems to both of us that maybe the judge isnt racists against black people, just all the mixed people in the world? thats a lot seeming how everyone is most likely mixed with more than one race these days, whether you can tell just by looking at them or not. So maybe someone should check the judges records cause as far as we can see it, he should never have married any two people of different races (Not just Black and White!)

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  • V-for-V-a-l-i-a-n-T™'s Avatar
    Posted by V-for-V-a-l-i-a-n-T™ Mon Oct 19, 2009 7:34am PDT

    "Louisiana judge denies interracial couple marriage license--why are we surprised?"

    --Probably because some people don't want to acknowledge racism still exists, but when minorities notice it they say we are "pulling the race card"

    and it's funny racists ALWAYS start sentences explaining themselves with "I'm not racist but......"

    Then to top it off in the video he says he believes racism is "treating Black people differently or unequal.."

    and it's like "dude, what the f*ck do you think YOU are doing??!!!"

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