Hey! Joe Hottie here, emerging from an extended hibernation period. Um, and not a moment too soon, judging by some of your comments. (Sorry to have disappointed some of you with the infrequent posting. Forgive me, please?)
But anyway. It has been a while, and I have a lot to catch you all up on. For today, let's talk about how I'm still seeing Coffee Girl (or Coffee Cougar, as my editor is fond of calling her). In a nutshell, things haven't really changed between me and Coffee Girl: One of us will text the other something playful (or downright dirty, depending on the time of night and amount of alcohol consumed). Then, the other person chooses to either return the message or ignore it.
Think about it. It's an efficient and mutually-beneficial relationship, and we've met up about a dozen times. Before parting ways until whenever it is we'll see each other again, sometimes we'll get brunch the next morning and b.s. about our jobs and friends and whatnot. Or we don't. Whatever.
Since neither of us is looking for a "real" relationship with the other person, neither of us is particularly interested in finding out if the other is seeing anyone else. More importantly--at least in my eyes--is that neither of us is hoping to deviate from this routine. It's comfortable, but still exciting and indulging. Plus, it's a nice luxury to have this set-up for when you're out at night and want to hookup without having to chat up someone new.
I'm pretty sure we'll keep doing this until something comes along to jolt us (like if one of us "meets someone"), after which we'll probably part ways and never see each other again. Which admittedly sounds kind of cold, but that's just how these things tend to play out...and I think we're both fine with that. After all, we both know the terms of our sex-based relationship. We're both adults. Oh and she just happens to be a tiny bit older.
As for Jessica, who I know you're wondering about. Wow. There's enough material there to write a novel. Which I will start doing with my next post...so stay tuned.
Posted by J.H.
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