Is she hiding something?

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  Posted by Rosalie VanDeKamp Tue May 26, 2009 9:10pm PDT

  Leave it alone. Girls hate nosy guys. If she has something to tell you, she will tell you herself. Don't risk your relationship on a hunch.

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  Posted by Emily H Tue May 26, 2009 9:18pm PDT

  What makes you think she is hiding something from you? what are the telltale signs? And what is it that you think her EX did to her? Adding these to the entry would make it easier to answer your question.

  But working with what I am presented with here, you said you have a feeling. Well, then tell her that if ever she needs to tell you something and it's really difficult to talk about, you'll be there for her. If she asks why, ask her, very gently, these questions. If she gets mad, denies everything, then at least you made an effort to let her know that you care and can help her if she needs it.

  Hope this helps.

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  Posted by Joe Wed May 27, 2009 5:15am PDT

  those are two WOMEN'S ideas. I just ended a relationship with a girl and had the same problem. Don't let it be about her. If your not happy, which if that continues you wont be, then you need to tell her and if what she says doesnt really help after a week, I would tell her shes just not good for you right now. I was with this girl for more than a year struggling with closely the same problem. Love is blind, and she was a compulsive liar, and i had that same exact feeling for the whole time, but continued cause i thought it was just what i needed to sacrifice for US.. I was really wrong. She was a compulsive liar and a slut. end of story!

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  Posted by Joe Wed May 27, 2009 5:21am PDT

  Dont know if you got my first comment.. but GET OUT OF IT. If it doesnt go away,, you will regret being with her. Love is more than you think it is. If your in love then youll see her again.

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  Posted by *GoldenGirl*™ Wed May 27, 2009 7:14am PDT

  freemanjoe87 gees! a bit harsh, just cause you had a bad experience with your girl doesnt mean his girl is a compulsive liar and a sl-t also. If it is something that happened in her past maybe she doesnt want to talk about it and she doesnt have to, thats her choice. She may open up when she feels more comfortable and trusting with you. Give it some time. I wouldnt jump to the conclusion that she is a compulsive liar just yet. I wouldnt get so worked up on somethign that you cant be sure happened. Good Luck.

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  Posted by Lenny Hawk Wed May 27, 2009 7:15am PDT

  yes they are right express yourself tell her how you feel, if she really does love you i dont think she will tell you if somthing is going on, trust me bro i get knots in my stomach too everytime she tells me im going to hang with some friends, but i say to myself if i give her the space she wants and needs to find out where you both stand in the relationship, then everything will be cool as long as you both share how you feel, try giving her a flower , and then tell her how you feel

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  Posted by BP Wed May 27, 2009 12:33pm PDT

  I parshly agree with Lenny, and parshly with freemanjoe. I recently had a relationship end where I couldn't get past something very similar. I had a little more infomation/facts, but still didn't know the whole truth, and still could not shake it. Like Lenny said, if you like her, then you have to be able to give her her space. You might get knots in your stomach, and its going to bug you...but let it sit for a while. If it still bugs you, then you have to bring it up to her and tell her how you feel. Don't accuse her, just let her know how you feel and that its been bugging you. Freemanjoe is right in that, it really truely only gets worse the longer the question goes unanswered. Maybe we (my self is included) don't know what true love is yet, untill we can find a girl who doesn't put us in these situations.

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