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Monday, November 30, 2009

How To Love Your Breasts During Sex

Women's Health has a great feature this month about bringing your breasts into sex. The piece points out that we talk about breasts all the time, but we're usually talking about the non-sexy aspects of the boob—cancer and breast-feeding for example. But boobs are also a sex organ, and WH lists a bunch ways to enjoy your breasts plus some interesting facts. Here are the best of their tips, plus a few of our own.

The light touch. Have him run his fingers just above the skin on your chest and on your breasts without touching your nipples or coming in direct contact with your body. Skimming your skin like this brushes the tiny hairs on your body into a delightful tease.

The new touch. According to WH, the nipples get all the attention, but the areas right above the nipples—think 10 o'clock and 2 o'clock—are actually the most sensitive parts of your breast. After reading this we touched our chest and sure enough, those areas were extremely sensitive. WH says, "the pressure from his tongue will activate a tiny muscle just beneath the surface that flips on your headlights so he can then flick them ever so gently with his tongue."

The wet touch. WH recommends shower sex that incorporates breast love. We suggest that he puts his mouth on your nipple during sex. This additional point of contact increases intimacy and your sense of connection and heightens the pleasure for both of you.

The hard touch. Another great nipple move is the twist. Ask your guy to grasp your nipple between is fingers and lightly twist it. Or do it yourself while he's focusing on another part of your body. Here you'll appreciate the additional sensation, and the slight kinkyness of contorting your flesh. S&M For Beginners

The no touch. And finally the easiest way to enjoy your breasts is simply to look at them. Next time you're having sex, grab a mirror and watch how your breasts move during sex, how they look when you're lying down, how they sway when you're on top of him. Men get to see our bodies in motion whenever we have sex, so you should see what all the fuss is about.

Readers, how do you enjoy your breasts during sex?

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  • TJ S's Avatar
    Posted by TJ S Fri Aug 28, 2009 7:45am PDT

    Thought I'd learn something but....nope. Not missing anything...Nice to hear a woman talk about it though LOL

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  • work in progress's Avatar
    Posted by work in progress Fri Aug 28, 2009 8:41am PDT

    Thats all fine and dandy, no issues with any of this. But how about loving the way your breasts LOOK, esp during sex!

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  • Irene's Avatar
    Posted by Irene Fri Aug 28, 2009 8:49am PDT

    I am concerned that you have noted these as the best of WH's tips plus a few of your own? These are simply the five most basic concepts about the sexuality of women's breasts. Any woman who's ever taken a soapy shower would already know these things about her own breasts. So much has been left out here...very disappointing.

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  • Quita's Avatar
    Posted by Quita Fri Aug 28, 2009 8:53am PDT

    why do love hurt. if a person love you why do ta use you abuse you an cheat on you why.leave you out to dry. why beat you.

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  • Theresa's Avatar
    Posted by Theresa Fri Aug 28, 2009 9:42am PDT

    creativity. Why even copy what has already been done?

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  • Irene's Avatar
    Posted by Irene Fri Aug 28, 2009 10:13am PDT

    Just 'cause I'm feeling unusually chatty this morning....for "work in progress", I think that the suggestion for woman to grab a mirror and look at her own breasts during sex is rather silly...the author makes the assumption that we women do not know what our breasts look like in motion. The author also makes the assumption that a heterosexual woman who watched her own breasts in a mirror during sex would understand what all the fuss is about. The simple fact of the matter is that men are attracted to soft bouncing boobies..all shapes...all sizes...while even the most secure woman is still probably a little bit self conscious about all that breast motion..especially if they slide sideways when you lay down. : ) That is what they are supposed to do you know. I have never met a heterosexual woman who was sexually stimulated by watching her own breasts move. However, men seem to go to some effort during sexual activity to get 'em jiggling. The point being that men are attracted to breasts and women really aren't. I am quite happy with my own breasts and honestly that is the key. Be happy with your own natural breasts. Healthy breasts come in all shapes, densities and sizes. Don't compare your breasts with some other woman's. Appreciate them for their own beauty. Regardless of the size or shape, love your breasts for the pleasure that they can bring you and the pleasure that they give your lover. Also know that your appreciation for your breasts changes as you age. Have fun with them!

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  • Irene's Avatar
    Posted by Irene Fri Aug 28, 2009 10:16am PDT

    ...and Quita? Love does not hurt like that! If you are being used, abused, cheated on, left out and/ or beaten...well then you are NOT being loved by that person.

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  • Bryan's Avatar
    Posted by Bryan Fri Aug 28, 2009 11:08am PDT

    Do the "motorboat" on them. Drives women wild.

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  • Emmelyn's Avatar
    Posted by Emmelyn Fri Aug 28, 2009 11:57am PDT

    bah i have having my breasts touched for too long ,it just feels weird after awhile

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  • Cruz's Avatar
    Posted by Cruz Fri Aug 28, 2009 4:18pm PDT

    not bad info but my girl freind dosen't like me touching hers.

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