Love + Sex
Sunday, November 29, 2009
Have You Ever Dated a Guy with a Temper?
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Did you guys watch
The Bachelorette last night? Canadian cutie Jillian
gets to choose between thirty guys, and most of them are smart,
funny and smokin'. But there's one guy who I definitely
would
not want to meet in a dark alley....
David, a 27-year-old from Ohio, freaks me out. He seemed sweet
and shy at the beginning, but now he has crazy eyes, chugs whiskey
and talks about beating up one of the other guys. He even said,
"I would kill him," and then added, "There's no
reason we shouldn't tie him to a tree and beat the *%@* out of
him." What???? That is insane!!! Take it down a notch,
Dave!
Related:
“The Sex Secret I’ve Never Told Anyone”
Dear readers, you ever dated a guy with a temper? Were
you ever freaked out by it? Have you ever seen your man get into a
fight? Would you prefer your guy to have some spicy edge to him, or
do you like a more mellow man? (And a side question for
Bachelorette fans: Who are your favorite
guys so far? I have a little crush on
Ed and
Kipton's abs...)
P.S.
What if you really don't like your friend's
boyfriend?
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Related: the bachelorette, temper, men, dating
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Posted by AmandaG Wed Jun 3, 2009 8:14pm PDT
Due to my childhood past, I'm attracted to guys who are bullies and are abusive. So yes, I've seen the temper before..way more times then I want to.
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Posted by lola Wed Jun 3, 2009 8:33pm PDT
A friend of mine stuck his middle finger at a guy at a movie teather becuz he told us to huuuush...another time the same guy got upset becuz another guy ask him if he was my body guard...I think this might me signs of a guy with a temper...I wonder if he is or not?
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Posted by None Thu Jun 4, 2009 5:19am PDT
Meh, I am Cuban so I got a temper, I don't like extremely passive guys, but that doesn't sound psycho to me above, I say stuff like that all the time LOL!!!!!! But I didn't see his demeanor which could be scary, cuz ya, guys with tempers, are capable of murder more so than a woman, IDK, I have to watch it! So Jillian got the part eh! Good for her.
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Posted by Rachael Thu Jun 4, 2009 9:48am PDT
I am currently in a relationship with a person with a really bad temper. He usually somkes (herbs) to relax 2 to 3x's a day. He has hit me several times and always seems to turn it around and says I bring out the worst in. Last night he blew up on me for a friend who called my phone and it did get physical. He is very dependent on his mother and she tells him all the time to stay away from me. I am the victem and as of today I am out! Please anyone with words of advice give me your input...
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Posted by Annie Fri Jun 5, 2009 6:19am PDT
I'm still married to a man with a temper. He lashes out every day. I've left him a few times and he says he's changed so I go back and he still hasn't. If it wasn't for the economy he'd be out of my life for good!
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Posted by ladybella04 Fri Jun 5, 2009 6:40am PDT
Dated a guy with a temper for about 5 mos. He never hit me, but he would bang objects or mouth off if he was mad. He was also really stubborn and that was the last straw. I dumped him because he wouldn't compromise with me after I'd had a miserable, long day at my new job. I didn't want to go out and he did- so I was trying to be nice by going to his friend's party, but I said we had to leave by 12. It got later and later until I got my coat and was hinting that we should go. He said if you walk out that door it's over. So I walked out the door, got into my car, started the ignition and then look both ways to back out, and what do you know- there he is banging on my window. I drove away with him hitting my window and running after me.
And yeah, that David guy on the bachelorette freaks me out too. He seems kind of um, you know...crazy.
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Posted by G Fri Jun 5, 2009 7:18am PDT
Yes I married a abusive man. Thank GOD I got out of it, I had 2 kids by him and he's stll crazy.He's been married 4 times and is still abusuve.
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Posted by DaisyGirl Fri Jun 5, 2009 7:18am PDT
I date a boxer with a horrible temper. Of course I didn't know it at first and he never threatened me nor did I feel threatened. But, I knew if I continued in the relationship at some point he would have hit me. So, I got out- I miss the sex though- best sex of my life!
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Posted by Enochalypse Fri Jun 5, 2009 8:56am PDT
guess you've never met anyone from Cincinnati.
we like to drink whiskey by the gallon and mainly joke about beating or killing other guys.
typically we will pass out long before this comes to pass.
i like my eyes just the way they are, crazy and a little bloodshot.
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Posted by Elisha Fri Jun 5, 2009 9:12am PDT
I was married to a typically pretty quiet guy...until he got upset about something. Then he'd throw his shoes, the remote control, etc...watched them zoom past my head a couple times. He had/has a very hot temper. Not to mention, he destroyed my self-esteem with his words. I'm so thankful that my current husband treats me so incredibly well and truly loves me for me. I can't even imagine being in that type of situation again. Sometimes you gotta watch out for those quiet types too!
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