Love + Sex
Sunday, November 29, 2009
Have You Ever Dated a Guy with a Temper?
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Did you guys watch
The Bachelorette last night? Canadian cutie Jillian
gets to choose between thirty guys, and most of them are smart,
funny and smokin'. But there's one guy who I definitely
would
not want to meet in a dark alley....
David, a 27-year-old from Ohio, freaks me out. He seemed sweet
and shy at the beginning, but now he has crazy eyes, chugs whiskey
and talks about beating up one of the other guys. He even said,
"I would kill him," and then added, "There's no
reason we shouldn't tie him to a tree and beat the *%@* out of
him." What???? That is insane!!! Take it down a notch,
Dave!
Related:
“The Sex Secret I’ve Never Told Anyone”
Dear readers, you ever dated a guy with a temper? Were
you ever freaked out by it? Have you ever seen your man get into a
fight? Would you prefer your guy to have some spicy edge to him, or
do you like a more mellow man? (And a side question for
Bachelorette fans: Who are your favorite
guys so far? I have a little crush on
Ed and
Kipton's abs...)
P.S.
What if you really don't like your friend's
boyfriend?
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Top photo:
Superbomba. Bottom photo: Kevin Foley/ABC
Related: the bachelorette, temper, men, dating
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Posted by LJ Wed Jun 10, 2009 2:01pm PDT
I would not want a "fly off the handles" type of guy (been there dumped that) he's likely to be a bully or an abuser! You need to experience the dating scene- as well as relationships to really pick up on these RED flags. I hope she takes that as her sign!
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Posted by ConnieG Wed Jun 10, 2009 5:39pm PDT
Yes, I did veiw the show. Why do women stay with those jerks, and why would you not exspect to see a few " loosers" on a show of that nature? Getting back to abusive relationships, Yes I have lived, nine long hororfing years of that kind of life.wonder if he's in a good mood tonite, or I hope he is not drinking, because I will be victomised in some mannor or time in the nite; (Even sex was abusive ). I still have nightmares about it. So, I saybe aware of the signs., Men are are victoms of abuse also, by the way; and I learned to spot the red flags poping up ;in stuff like controlling attitude, jealousy ; a slap heare and ther, money missing. or bad checks coming in ,you did not write. So, beware. . ConnieG
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Posted by ConnieG Wed Jun 10, 2009 5:39pm PDT
Yes, I did veiw the show. Why do women stay with those jerks, and why would you not exspect to see a few " loosers" on a show of that nature? Getting back to abusive relationships, Yes I have lived, nine long hororfing years of that kind of life.wonder if he's in a good mood tonite, or I hope he is not drinking, because I will be victomised in some mannor or time in the nite; (Even sex was abusive ). I still have nightmares about it. So, I saybe aware of the signs., Men are are victoms of abuse also, by the way; and I learned to spot the red flags poping up ;in stuff like controlling attitude, jealousy ; a slap heare and ther, money missing. or bad checks coming in ,you did not write. So, beware. . ConnieG
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Posted by ConnieG Wed Jun 10, 2009 5:39pm PDT
Yes, I did veiw the show. Why do women stay with those jerks, and why would you not exspect to see a few " loosers" on a show of that nature? Getting back to abusive relationships, Yes I have lived, nine long hororfing years of that kind of life.wonder if he's in a good mood tonite, or I hope he is not drinking, because I will be victomised in some mannor or time in the nite; (Even sex was abusive ). I still have nightmares about it. So, I saybe aware of the signs., Men are are victoms of abuse also, by the way; and I learned to spot the red flags poping up ;in stuff like controlling attitude, jealousy ; a slap heare and ther, money missing. or bad checks coming in ,you did not write. So, beware. . ConnieG
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Posted by Judy Wed Jun 10, 2009 7:37pm PDT
Oh my God yes!
The worse I could have ever done to myself.
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Posted by Bibiana Thu Jun 11, 2009 7:37am PDT
I am currently dating a guy with a temper and for the over 3years we have been dating he has never been violent 4 once. smtimes i wonder if he could be pretending 4 that long. I love him so much and dont want 2 leave him cos of his temper. Am i making a mistake?
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