Ok, so I just had to write about this. I was at work when a
client came in to pay her bill. I see her every month, but
this time she came in with her husband. I had to ask another
co-worker if that was really her husband because it looked like her
dad or borderline, her grandpa. She is 36 and he is 62.
Now, I firmly believe that love can be found in the strangest
places sometimes and not always within our own age group.
However, I look at things from a long term perspective. In
another 20 years, she will be 56 and he will be 82. I guess
that is why they made Viagra, but seriously! She will have plenty
of prime years left and more than likely will be spending them
alone. I think it is great for those that find love
regardless of any obstacles that may stand in their way, but how
does one connect with someone that is old enough to be their
dad? Granted, I have alot of common interests with my own
father. In fact, he is the reason I like rock music. So
when does age become more than just a number? Does it
ever? Could you physcially and emotionally connect with
someone regardless of age? Of course this is a bit of a
stretch example but what about Anna Nicole Smith and her 80
something husband? Naturally, every human being on this planet saw
those dollar signs in her eyes a mile away, but what if she really
did love him? Is it possible to fall in love with someone
that is old enough to be your father, grandfather, mother, or
grandmother? It seems like women go for the much much older
men versus the other way around. I have to admit, every guy I
have dated has been older than me except for a rare few. The
younger ones never last because, well they were very
immature. The oldest guy I have ever dated was only 8 years
older than me. I cannot say I would not date someone based on
age alone, but I would consider the long term aspects of it.
I want someone to share my life with. I don't want to
spend most of my golden years taking care of someone that is my
fathers age, on top of possibly taking care of my father.
Does that sound harsh? Yes it does. Does it sound
selfish? Maybe. I understand that love can bloom just
about anywhere and believe that there is somebody out there for
everyone. I will even go as far as saying that I believe in
soul mates. I think everyone has a soul mate but only a lucky
few actually find them. So could this 62 year old man be her
soul mate? Anything is possible, but I find it hard to
believe that life would work out that way. Of course, I
understand that nobody knows when they will go and that any of us
may not even make it to our 80's but if I do I would much
rather have a husband that is right up there with me in age.
Not 20 years younger and leaving me at home while he is out playing
bingo with the younger crowd!! I guess that age thing just
brings alot of different things to mind that most people may not
even think of. Most people don't think long term. I
do hope everyone finds their soul mate or their true love. If
these two are truly in love, then so be it. I can still be
baffled though!
Good luck and best wishes to you all!
Foxy :)~
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Posted by Tue Jan 13, 2009 2:39am PST
Report Abusei agree with you.
age is nothing but a number.
reality goes with mind only.
mind is young as ever and fresh with positive thinking.
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Posted by Tue Jan 13, 2009 5:26am PST
Report AbuseI agree as well. Age is just a number. Me and my gf is about 12 1/2 years difference and I have never seen or even been in a relationship like this, to describe it in short, fairytale. I think I found my soulmate. Perception is reality, right. I hope that everyone in this world can find their one true love and stick it out, it's worth it's weight in gold, and the feeling is indescribable.
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Posted by Tue Jan 13, 2009 11:11am PST
Report AbuseThink of the man's point of view. He knows what is going on, it's not like she is holding him by the hand yet. When he is 82 and she 56 he knows he will leave her ready to continue life. Who are we to judge? Last year my youngest lover was 24 (I am 48), and my oldest was 56. Would I consider marrying one so much younger than me, or one that was eight years older? Probably not, but still the pleasure they gave me and I gave back was all good. I am now with a woman 14 years my junior, so? She likes older men and I love her vitality. As long as it makes you feel good, go for it.
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Posted by Tue Jan 13, 2009 12:48pm PST
Report AbuseI do not agree, age is not just a number. However I do think the the time of this age difference matters. I man in his 40s going for someone in their teens or early 20s will have far more differences than a couple where the oldest is in their 60s and the youngest is in their 40s.
Personally if I were a parent though I would not want my son or daughter marrying someone my age or older.
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Posted by Thu Feb 5, 2009 2:01pm PST
Report AbuseI beleave age is just a number am 26 going on27 in 4 months me and my boyfriend have been together going on 6 years now,. my boyfriend is 47, trust me he does not act like it,... we are each other soulmate,... i've dated a younger guy but he passed away, when i met my boyfriend that i have know i though i would never find love again... that all changed when i met jeff... i hate when people say is that your daddy, i say what are ya jeoluse,..
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Posted by Thu Feb 5, 2009 2:01pm PST
Report AbuseI beleave age is just a number am 26 going on27 in 4 months me and my boyfriend have been together going on 6 years now,. my boyfriend is 47, trust me he does not act like it,... we are each other soulmate,... i've dated a younger guy but he passed away, when i met my boyfriend that i have know i though i would never find love again... that all changed when i met jeff... i hate when people say is that your daddy, i say what are ya jeoluse,..
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Posted by Fri Mar 20, 2009 4:55pm PDT
Report AbuseI belive age is just a number im 43 and my husband is 36 and we love each other completely my son on the other hand is only 22 and his girl friend is 43 to and i really dont approve but if that is what makes him happy so be it may be one day he will find someone his age
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