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Thursday, November 26, 2009

5 Easy Steps to Halloween Roleplaying


If you hate karaoke and public speaking is one of your greatest fears, then the whole idea of acting out your fantasies probably sounds about as appealing as, well, karaoke and public speaking. If that's you, then you can use Halloween to gently test the sexual benefits of role-playing. It's the perfect excuse to become someone else for the night, which ultimately means having sex like someone else: trying new positions, using new props, saying new dirty (or dirtier) things...

  1. Make sure you've got a costume party to go to -- a legitimate excuse to dress up will help motivate you.
  2. Wear something out of character that makes you feel sexy and use it as an excuse to act a little differently -- no one will think you're weird, they'll just think you're committing to the costume. So if you tend to be a wallflower in your daily life, then try an outfit that's empowering, like "police officer" or "royalty." If you're a career-minded, tough-talking go-getter, then try something a little more vulnerable, like Little Red Riding Hood or a retro newsie.
  3. Try to coordinate costumes with your partner so your sexy vampire doesn't end up hand-in-hand with a dedidedly unsexy home-made garbage bag of M&Ms. You two should be on the same page.

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  4. Costumes that helps create or emphasize a certain sexual power dynamic are good choices: doctor/nurse and patient, priest and nun, soldier and interrogator, police officer and law breaker, Victorian school marm and school girl/boy, cheerleader and star football player...
  5. When you get home with your partner, keep the costume on and stay in character while you start making out. You don't necessarily need a script and a specific scenario to act out: an outfit can be enough to affect the way you touch, kiss, and talk. The stupendous sex will practically happen by itself. And then you'll be a convert.
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  • SILENT KNIGHT's Avatar
    Posted by SILENT KNIGHT Fri Oct 30, 2009 5:52am PDT

    I like where your head is at on this one. I've done the Ski mask intruder thing and the naughty police officer cavity search as wierd as it felt at first it was actually a welcomed change of pace that invites many other levels of fun in between the masterpieces of sex for maximum release and total relaxation.

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  • Keolebogile Molefi's Avatar
    Posted by Keolebogile Molefi Fri Oct 30, 2009 11:36pm PDT

    looking for a girl

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  • Ao's Avatar
    Posted by Ao Sat Oct 31, 2009 7:30pm PDT

    convert your role in the society.a good idea ,but is the method adapting to the couples which boredom the sexy method or others ? so ,they should get another ways to motivate the lives?

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  • Abdulsamad's Avatar
    Posted by Abdulsamad Sun Nov 1, 2009 11:16am PST

    hi how are you i like to be with you friend pls just give me miscall i will call you this is my number(00973 36802914) thanks

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    Posted by Abdulsamad Sun Nov 1, 2009 11:16am PST

    hi how are you i like to be with you friend pls just give me miscall i will call you this is my number(00973 36802914) thanks

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    Posted by Abdulsamad Sun Nov 1, 2009 11:16am PST

    hi how are you i like to be with you friend pls just give me miscall i will call you this is my number(00973 36802914) thanks

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  • LindseyS's Avatar
    Posted by LindseyS Sun Nov 1, 2009 12:14pm PST

    Haha me and my boyfriend went as Superheroes. I was the hot Silk Spectre and he was The Spirit. All night we were checkin eachother out. I couldn't get enough of the mask he was wearing and he couldn't get enough of my garters that were attached to my boots.

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  • DAVE's Avatar
    Posted by DAVE Mon Nov 2, 2009 5:24am PST

    dressing as a pirate attracts ladies especially french maids or catwomen outfits. love the legs!

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