what should i do? help...

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  Posted by BONITA Thu Oct 30, 2008 7:56pm PDT

  talk to them individual all alone and tell them what you need to tell them and look at them in the eyes and look really disapointed....they are going to know that they did something wrong and they might tell you that they took the money

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  Posted by hanley Thu Oct 30, 2008 8:21pm PDT

  tanx bonita. i will take your advice, i could do it to my kids, i mean talk to them heart to heart, but how could i to my helper, we are not relative, i dont want to offend her (if in case she is not the one). what i did now is talking to them in general, not pointing to anybody cause i dont have specific idea who is it.

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  Posted by Sunshine Thu Oct 30, 2008 8:22pm PDT

  Bonita's suggestion sounds really good. Hope it all works out for you.

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  Posted by SURE THING Thu Oct 30, 2008 8:25pm PDT

  i think you should also talk to them individually but then as a group. not judgmental but disappointed and hurtful. let them all now how your feeling and how you cant tolerate a theif and it wont be accepted in your house. give them a choice to admitt it first but if no luck then ask that they put it back where they found it and explain to them that i wont happen again

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  Posted by hanley Thu Oct 30, 2008 8:29pm PDT

  tanx to all of you who comment, i will really consider your advice.i really feel at lost today and dont know what to do. with you all i have now idea on things to do and say. im so grateful to you all.God bless you

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