Parenting
Friday, November 27, 2009
Scared to Start with a Single Mom By Choice
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Several months ago I became friends with "Layla"
who is a single mom, by choice, of a newborn. We have started
spending all of our free time together and I am developing strong
feelings for her. For the first time in my adult life, I am
too scared to make a move and am hoping you can help me overcome my
fear.
SingleEdition.com Lifestyle Expert
Sherri Langburt's Answer:
If you're scared imagine how Layla feels! Despite her
independence and courage, everyone, close and removed, is probably
treating her with kid gloves. To further complicate matters, she
probably has had limited contact with a man in the last few years
so chances are she is extremely nervous to let someone get close,
especially now that there is a child involved.
The good news is that you're dealing with a woman who knows
what she wants and is strong enough to say no if she finds herself
in an uncomfortable or compromising situation. Be forewarned that
even though she may be ready and wanting intimacy, thoughts of her
child can interfere with her desires.....continue reading on
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Posted by Sat Oct 31, 2009 10:10am PDT
single mom by choice, simple, she wants to be a single mom by choice, not hard, kids gloves
she is not a kid, she still has desires, i say try, try to love her for her more and show she is
important to you, and her Child, dont run , just hang out, kiss her and make it count, hug her , flirt with her, and make it more if she wants more, so go for it, smile. enjoy. peace
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Posted by Tony Sat Oct 31, 2009 9:34pm PDT
I was in that kind of situation once with a girl older than me but i was impressed cause she had a child but the most important is to pay attention to her if you really like her and you must really want to spend time with her show her that she comes first than everybody else like anything that might come in between you two and even your friends and even sometimes family partys cause that will let her know that you are interested in her and that you are willing to put her first than everything else and also giving small details by surprise i know that those count a lot make a move when you feel ready and just tell her what you feel and hope for the best.
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