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Friday, November 27, 2009

sad for my dear son

give me please your piece of advice...

i am worried and sad for my 10 year old son. he was a transferee in this school and this past days i noticed that he is making lots of excuses to be absent and many times he told me that the other kids always urging him for a fight. thanks that my son heed my advice not to go for a fight but lately since i am sick of this things i told him to fight them back, at least he's not the one who started it.

i know that its not really a good and sound advice for him but i am hurt for my son. i am really worried that his grades might be affected since he was an honor student in his previous school.

the reason i transferred him is because of the distance, he have to travel very early everyday to the school  and in case he dont feel well there, there is nobody who could took him home, aside from the travelling cost and the salary of the nanny if i will hire one.

his present school now is just a walking distance from home.

should i wait and just bear these things till the school year will end (its still half way to go) or have him go back to his previous school. if i ask him what he wants, he just leave the decision to me. what's the best thing i should do?
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  • *female powers 101's Avatar
    Posted by *female powers 101 Fri Oct 3, 2008 1:43am PDT

    HELLO SHINE, IF I WERE YOU I WOULD GO TO SCHOOL WITH HIM AND TALK TO HIS TEACHERS AND SEE JUST WHAT AND WHO IS BOTHERING HIM FIRST.START THERE. HE IS JUST A BABY, 10 YEARS OLD, HE SHOULD BE LOVING SCHOOL. FEMALE POWERS HAS SPOKEN. CHECK OUT MY BLOB.

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  • www.organicpurebeauties.com's Avatar
    Posted by www.organicpurebeauties.com Fri Oct 3, 2008 1:44am PDT

    You should Tranfer him, write a complaint letter to the board of Education.

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  • shirleen's Avatar
    Posted by shirleen Fri Oct 3, 2008 1:51am PDT

    Love and listen to him. Try harder but let him know you'll try your hardest to get help for him. Don't wait to long. Once he knows he has you on his side mentally and phyically they can endure for a bit more til you can fix things. My daughter endured 6 mo. of torture from her peers before i got her help then i find out it was over a year. How bad of a mom am I? I didn't know. The last thing as a parent needs is their child to hurt themselves because they are human and get tired of being someone elses Joke of the Day. Hug him, remind him of just what he means to you, and never forget to tell him "I Love You", and "How Proud He Makes You". He'll appreciate it. Maybe not now, but maybe later when he is mature.

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