Why do working moms take issue with Michelle Obama wanting to be a mom-in-chief?

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  Posted by Chips Tue Dec 9, 2008 7:39am PST

  I think we should not judge her for her decision just like we should not judge any Mom who decides to work or not work - we need to stick together and this new Administration is a good time for it!

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  Posted by Rowdygirl Tue Dec 9, 2008 8:13am PST

  What job can be more important that making sure that her children are being raised correctly? I know that's not a popular opinion, but I don't care. Her kids are going to be in a difficult situation for at least the next 4 years. Her top priority SHOULD be taking care of them and making sure that they are being handled in the best possible way. She is in a good position to do that (finances not being an issue) and I can't see why anyone would think that it's a bad choice.

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  Posted by Chrystani Tue Dec 9, 2008 8:49am PST

  I cant believe people are saying shes doing the wrong thing.

  Rowdy girl,

  I agree with you, children should be a moms number one priority. Her kids are adjusting to a new lifestyle, and she has to be there and protect her babies.

  Can you imagine the type of jobs she will be offered now that shes the first lady!?

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  Posted by Me Tue Dec 9, 2008 9:04am PST

  Reality also bites. Could she possibly hold a job in her chosen field (law) and not immediately be attacked by the republicans for conflict of interest etc etc.

  They do a relly good job of that andin the mean time abuse power themselves (stevens, palin etc)

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  Posted by NiCoL3 Tue Dec 9, 2008 9:37am PST

  All in all its still a major responsibility, being a mother is indeed a full time job....

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  Posted by Dory Devlin, Shine staff Tue Dec 9, 2008 10:34am PST

  You are so right, Nataly. I do not worry that Michelle Obama's career aspirations are in danger now that she will be first lady. But I do think her family is about to embark on a journey she probably did not foresee when her girls were babies. Of course, her daughters will come first as she helps them make a major transition without completely upending their lives. Does it mean she won't do some important, worthwhile work outside of the White House, too? I doubt it. She is capable of a lot and the fact that she calls herself mom-in-chief because her first priority is her daughters makes me like her all the more. It is all about choice. The ability to step back from work to care for family when needed is too rare a privilege, and having a first lady who knows that firsthand is a good thing.

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  Posted by natural_beauty Tue Dec 9, 2008 11:47am PST

  I think it is wonderful she would rather be the mom in chief. I am assuming she wants her daughters to feel safe and comfortable being the first kids. While Obama is busy fixing our country and if she were to work and never be with them. they are going to hold some resentment and probably feel lost and alone with a bunch of nannies. It is always best to have at least one parent present at all times. Unfortunatly we are all not that fortunate :(

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  Posted by Kenda Tue Dec 9, 2008 12:58pm PST

  I know this is way off subject, but isn't that dress a little too grown up for that little girl. Can someone give her some sleeves please!!

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  Posted by Kenda Tue Dec 9, 2008 12:59pm PST

  **whispering** some mom she is, she overlooked the cardigan for that little girl.

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  Posted by Manne Gray Tue Dec 9, 2008 4:07pm PST

  I think it's great that Michelle is choosing to be there for her daughters and family during a period that can become hectic, fast paced, and stressful. Nannies can't replace a real parent being there for a child when critical and ordinary times come about growing up. So I commend her for putting her family first.

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