Wednesday, November 25, 2009

One Day at a time.

Well, the weekend is almost over.  And it has been the first weekend I have had off in about two years, other than the one I toke during vacation.  And I must say it wasnt all that enjoyable.  Tomorrow is the first Monday that I will be jobless.  So I will be spending it job searching.  I will probably just look online that day and see whats out there and then Tuesday actually going around to some of the places I found.  I figured I could focus my efforts more efficiently that way.  Other than that just waiting to see if I qualify for unemployment.  Maybe I will have a job before then and it wont matter.
Anyway.
More rain today.  Seems like as soon as it clears up and gives us a full day of sun and warm air, then the storm clouds roll in right behind them.
Still no luck with finding a new friend slash possible significant other. There is one lady who I have hung out with(I guess you could call it a date, I paid for dinner)twice.  But, Im not feeling it.  We have known each other for about 8-9 years.  But I feel that we will only be friends in the future.  There are a couple other ladies that there could be a possible connection. But, one of them seemed to change her attitude when I told her I dont attend church on a regular basis.   I understand that she wants someone of strong faith.  And I respect that.   And another lady who found me on a dating site and havent met yet.  We will se.  
And no Im not a pimp.   If I was a pimp then why are my weekends always spent with guys or with my roomates.   I mean seriously.  The woman I wrote about a few post ago told me that "I'm the type a guy that a girl falls for quick"  I mean seriously!  Is that a bad thing.  REALLY?   I cant help who I am.  I cant help I open the car door everytime.  I cant help that I didnt check out our waitress when we went out.  I cant help that when I got out with a lady I dont go out and look around to see who else in the restuarant or bar.   Blah! 
Just bloggin.  No need to respond if your gonna say Im just soft or a wuss and I need to stop wearing my heart on my sleeve.   Cuz I dont.  I hardly let people in actually.  I barely tell people about myself or my personal life.
Ding.  Im done.

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  • Straightfoward(lovely lady)'s Avatar
    Posted by Straightfoward(lovely lady) Sun Apr 5, 2009 2:07pm PDT

    Hello Jack, always good to hear from you! There is nothing wrong with opening a door for a lady or paying lots of attention to them, and not having a roving eye! You have wonderful qualities. You are a great guy!!

    You will find someone one day!!

    I am doing good. Start a new job tomorrow, has good benefits and the pay is good, especially with the economy so bad.

    I see you are going to be looking for a job too!! I just feel like you will find something soon!

    I wish we were on here at the same times, sometimes. I miss chating with you!!

    SF

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  • hunnibunz's Avatar
    Posted by hunnibunz Sun Apr 5, 2009 2:52pm PDT

    just thought id send you some love... lol...

    and i will most likely be slacking on monday... if i even GO to school... its senior skip day... but i think my mom is going to make me go... LAME.... lol

    anyways... if you want... you can email me... check my blogs for the address...

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  • Shanice's Avatar
    Posted by Shanice Sun Apr 5, 2009 3:09pm PDT

    well i know that u dont tell people about ur personal life, but how r they suppose to understand where ur coming from. how r they suppose to know what advice to give u. i know u dont want them in ur business, but tell them little stuff. not ur deep personal stuff

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  • Katie's Avatar
    Posted by Katie Sun Apr 5, 2009 3:11pm PDT

    New post!!

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  • jerremman's Avatar
    Posted by jerremman Sun Apr 5, 2009 5:40pm PDT

    Well Jack I don't know anything about you, but it seems that you already know that you are a good guy and nice catch. I think you just want to hear it from someone else. You have all the qualities that women are looking for. I don't think anything is wrong with you, you just haven't found the right woman who can appreciate someone like yourself. I too was in your situation with the job searching and all.I been out of work for six months and I just got a new job. I hope your luck is better than mine has been. Good luck and don't be too in a rush to find someone, you never know what you find when your not looking.

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  • Lex's Avatar
    Posted by Lex Sun Apr 5, 2009 6:24pm PDT

    yea I agree

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  • Brandy's Avatar
    Posted by Brandy Sun Apr 5, 2009 6:27pm PDT

    Hi Jack,What kind of car did you have?

    We did have a fun weekend Thanks for stopping in at my post

    I wish you all the Best in life.and may you find your happyness very soon

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  • LADY-JANE's Avatar
    Posted by LADY-JANE Sun Apr 5, 2009 7:37pm PDT

    JACK SWEETIE,

    YOU AND SHE WILL FIND EACH OTHER WHEN ITS TIME FOR YOU BOTH, IN THE MEAN TIME HAVE FUN AND LAUGH OUT LOUD SWEETIE........VISIT ANYTIME

    HUGZZZZZZZZ TO YOU KIDO............

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    Posted by LADY-JANE Sun Apr 5, 2009 7:37pm PDT

    JACK SWEETIE,

    YOU AND SHE WILL FIND EACH OTHER WHEN ITS TIME FOR YOU BOTH, IN THE MEAN TIME HAVE FUN AND LAUGH OUT LOUD SWEETIE........VISIT ANYTIME

    HUGZZZZZZZZ TO YOU KIDO............

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  • KB's Avatar
    Posted by KB Sun Apr 5, 2009 8:48pm PDT

    wow! i never knew that about roses! that was very interesting to read! Thanks!

    The right girl will find your way, dont be in a rush! the wrong girls come with hurry!

    Its been very hott in CA lately! no clouds or anything!

    Good luck job hunting! I hope all turns out well for you!

    have a great week!

    ~KB

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