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Sunday, November 29, 2009

Yes, you need to own a suit

I grew up in the Yuppie ’80s, when women’s suits were essentially men’s suits with skirts and floppy bow ties (remember those? I had one that was hot pink with white polka dots–awesome). The idea was that in order to be taken seriously by the men in the office, you had to look like one of them, except of course that your suit had to have a skirt because pants were TOO masculine. It was hard to win, really.

Fortunately, women and their suits have come a long way in the past twenty years, but the suit is still a difficult wardrobe piece. So many offices are business casual these days, and so many of us are working from home or part time or in non-traditional fields, and it’s hard to know how to wear a suit, or even if you really need one in the first place.

I’m going to go out on a limb here and say that if you are a professional of ANY type, you NEED a suit, for presentations and job interviews and meetings with clients. Choose something with a classic shape, in a neutral color.* I recommend a three-piece suit, one that has pants AND a skirt, in a three-season fabric (a nice wool crepe, for example, or a silk blend). Having pants and a skirt gives you two ways to wear the suit right off the bat, but! don’t stop there. Make the suit–or its separate components–part of your everyday wardrobe. Wear the jacket with jeans; wear the skirt with a beautiful sweater. Wear the pants on their own or with a different jacket. Dress your suit up with a silk blouse or dress it down with a basic tee. Don’t save your suit for The Perfect Meeting; wear it often and well. Instead of your workaday shoes, wear the suit with knee-high boots (with the skirt) or peep-toed pumps (with the trousers). Wear the jacket out on a Saturday night with a silk camisole under it; wear the skirt with a tank and some pretty sandals for a casual day of shopping.

When you need to really look the professional part, put the suit back together, but don’t default to the mannish Yuppie look. Instead of a basic menswear shirt, put a silk tee under your suit, or a cashmere sweater. Or wear your neutral suit with a white shirt and a really fabulous necklace (something with a dramatic design or color scheme). Add a bright belt or stand-out shoes and an incredible bag. Wrap yourself in a big shawl instead of an overcoat. The suit should be basic, but that doesn’t mean boring.

But wait, you’re saying, I live where it is blazing hot in the summer/freezing cold in the winter. How will I ever find a suit that works year-round? Answer: you probably won’t. Cover that one extreme season with a second suit. Right now, my favorite option for summer is a seersucker suit, one with cropped trousers and an A-line skirt and a slim jacket. Where does one find such a suit?

Why, Target, of course. For under $100.00. Not bad for a second suit.

Don’t be intimidated by the suit; when you are building a basic professional wardrobe, a suit is a cornerstone. But in order to function as such, it has to really work for you. Don’t relegate your suit to a special corner of the closet; wear it often and well and you will look as professional as you feel.

Susan Wagner blogs about putting together a great work wardrobe that fits your life at The Working Closet and dishes out fashion advice for the yoga pants generation at Friday Style.

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  • Stephanie Quilao's Avatar
    Posted by Stephanie Quilao Mon Apr 7, 2008 10:35pm PDT

    One reason I love Silicon Valley is that no one, male or female wears suits here. Back in my corporate marketing days, I did have the classic black pant suit. I am so happy to not have to wear that any more ;)

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  • Tracey's Avatar
    Posted by Tracey Tue Apr 8, 2008 3:46am PDT

    As a professional, even though most of the time business casual is accepted, there were occassions where the suit was necessary. Mine is an all black power suit. I call it a power suit because when I put it on, I feel invincible. I wear it when I know I'll be networking with "the good ol' boys" or when I know I need to look intimidating. I also wear it for presentations because I feel so confident in it.

    It's amazing how one outfit can make you feel so powerful, but in my opinion, every woman needs a power suit!

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    Posted by opiniononly Tue Oct 28, 2008 12:56pm PDT

    I haven't worn matching suits since the 80's. I gave up the matchy matchy look when I developed my own style of dressing and it has served me well for years. I have an appropriate and professional wardrobe of coordinated separates which works for my industry's standards. No one has ever said I am unprofessionally dressed, in fact, I am often complimented on my wardrobe. While I will agree most industries do require a level of power dressing, individuality goes a long way at meets & greets and leaving an impression. I was at a professional conference a few weeks ago. I wore a turquoise silk blazer, cream silk tee and a black skirt the first day. In a sea of black/brown/navy suits, I was one of two who wore color (the other woman wore a red jacket.) I was approached by 8 different potential customers, who could easily find me because I was "the woman in the turq. jacket". Eight deals were closed and one gentlemen asked why women dress for work like they are going to a funeral. If you are going to buy a suit, don't buy solid a solid color and don't buy black/brown/navy. Dress appropriately, be professional and competent and it doesn't matter what you are wearing. There is a lot to be said about NOT following the crowd.

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