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Saturday, November 7, 2009

Will you work when you're eighty?

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I spend every Sunday visiting my 94-year old grandmother. She is unusually healthy and independent for her age. But what strikes me most about her is that she is lacking in purpose. Little things take on big importance because not very much happens from day to day. And she is always looking back at the period in her life when she felt useful and productive. When she could do things and go places. This experience, coupled with the fact that I really enjoy my work, makes me think I will likely work until I can no longer work.

The interesting thing is that my grandmother doesn’t even understand what I do -- a common issue for people who age and lose connection to the workforce. In fact, we had a running debate on whether “blog” was a real word since it wasn’t in her dictionary. Finally, she saw a reference on CNN to Larry King’s blog and then an article in her Readers Digest about blogs, and she conceded that I was not making up this work I claimed to do. Since my grandmother has never been on the Internet, I can understand why blogs don’t seem real. And thought it’s easy for me to say I’ll commit to staying current on the ways people work, I do wonder how hard that will be once yet to be envisioned tools are created by those generations younger than I.

All this made me pleased to discover the blog, “Staying Vertical: Dispatches from the Old Old on Work and Happiness,” relating to a book in progress by Ashton Applewhite (hat tip to Deborah Siegel for turning me on to Applewhite’s work.) Applewhite says she is looking at both paid and volunteer work done by the very old, and she says it hasn’t been at all difficult to find octogenarians at work.

The inspiration for Applewhite's project came from her in-laws, Ruth and Bill Stein, a couple in their mid-eighties who work as entrepreneurs in book sales, a career they both started in their mid-fifties. (Listen to the recorded interview of the Steins for a quick dose of inspiration).

Applewhite is exploring fascinating questions like “Will your job do you in or keep you going?” (Sounds like work can keep us going, but only if it’s the right kind of work. Enagaging but not relentlessly boring or too physically taxing.)

What are your thoughts about working into old age?
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  • Katie B's Avatar
    Posted by Katie B Fri Jul 10, 2009 11:58am PDT

    If I am physically and mentally able to I will... I don't see why not, even it's a part time job or only a day or two a week... I think having something to do gives people a purpose.

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  • Ahleah G's Avatar
    Posted by Ahleah G Fri Jul 10, 2009 12:21pm PDT

    I would not want to be obligated to work at that age to support myself. But I can't see myself ever being fully retired. I think I would just get bored. So most likely I will keep up some kind of part time work as long as I am able.

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  • tressa's Avatar
    Posted by tressa Fri Jul 10, 2009 12:22pm PDT

    My plan is to retire from my current career/job and do something less taxing, more fun. Most likely I'll have to supplement my finances. I see my own parents with very little to do....no social clubs, hobbies, church connections.....they have each other but I see that that is not enough. I'm single so being active and engaged will be even more important since I won't have a partner close by. It does take effort to stay involved but I don't want to be a burden (haven't we all heard that)...but it's true...I still want to be able to know and talk about current events, travel if possible, take care of my own personal needs such as banking, etc. Work or volunteering will keep me involved with others...that's so important. It's not too early to start thinking about what we want in our futures. I see a lot of people in my industry retire and take what I feel is the old-fashioned mode of retiring....they just stay home!! Now that scares me!!!

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  • Susan's Avatar
    Posted by Susan Fri Jul 10, 2009 12:27pm PDT

    My grandfather was a rabbi and attended to his congregation -- giving sermons, classes, leading prayers, the whole works -- until a few months before his death at age 94. He was a widower and had lived alone for decades, but was never lonely. I was working as a corporate lawyer when he died, and I remember asking myself whether I'd still want to be practicing law in my 90's. The answer came back loud and clear -- I don't even want to be doing this at age 30! And that was that for my legal career.

    Now I love what I do and hope I'll be going strong a half-century from now.

    Thanks Marci for all the great articles!

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  • redd2's Avatar
    Posted by redd2 Fri Jul 10, 2009 12:31pm PDT

    Why Not? It may become less of a choice, as capitalism slides into the unknown and hence the unsustainable.

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  • yaya's Avatar
    Posted by yaya Fri Jul 10, 2009 12:59pm PDT

    I have always known that I want to work until I physically cant. Im not sure why, I guess I figured it will give me something to do and a sense of purpose. Others may not feel this way and that's fine, maybe I feel this way because Im only 24 and I might change my mind later lol.

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  • Lillian's Avatar
    Posted by Lillian Fri Jul 10, 2009 1:18pm PDT

    Well, my dears I am still working - run my own business -and hope to continue on - working if you are able gives you a purpose - you have something to talk about over the dinner table and not what was on TV during the day - it makes you put on make-up, dress-up - looking good - I say go for it if you can.

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  • Dubs's Avatar
    Posted by Dubs Fri Jul 10, 2009 1:20pm PDT

    There are times when I think that "retirement" is going to be a fleeting idea for my generation (Late Gen-X early Gen-Y) so I don't really attach any importance to the word because quite frankly I will be working to the day I die anyways. Sounds pessimistic I know but with the Baby Boomers increaseing utilization of Social Security and Healthcare......its just going to be a long haul, I've just come to accept it.

    Could you imagine if the U.S. had the population of China with the same resource consumption, spending habits and standards of living regarding healthcare.

    No need Charlton Heston.....we already know Soylent Green is recycled processed people. Scary.

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  • Mrs. Carol B's Avatar
    Posted by Mrs. Carol B Fri Jul 10, 2009 2:08pm PDT

    I hope not. Want to be painting more and selling my work.

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  • wendy's Avatar
    Posted by wendy Fri Jul 10, 2009 2:36pm PDT

    I am a front-end manager at a huge retail store and I have a cashier who is 90, about to turn 91, she will not retire or cut back hours. She says that if she quits she will just go home and die. It makes me feel bad for her, but it it also unfair to the customers and other associates because she getting to the pint where she has forgotten how to do her job

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