to please in laws all the times or not

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  Posted by NO NAME Fri Aug 8, 2008 2:00am PDT

  MY FAVORITE RESPONSE

  I AM NOT RESPONSIBLE FOR UR PROBLEN,HELP WHAT U CAN BUT ONLY WHAT U HAVE EXTRA,I HAD THAT PROBLEN UNTILL I SAID NO,MY FAMILY COME FIRST

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  Posted by Sunny Fri Aug 8, 2008 2:09am PDT

  hi dear what new in ur life?

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  Posted by Sue Fri Aug 8, 2008 2:12am PDT

  dear shine.. u should know where to put your foot down.. and say no sometimes to save your own family.. you or cld ask your husband to explain to them in good manner. if still carry on, just dont bother much. Why must you put yourself in trouble when you just can walk away... god bless

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  Posted by Fri Aug 8, 2008 3:07am PDT

  hello shine dear, i don't know if it makes sense or not but, first inlaws are ur husbands parents, they are the same like your mother and father, what if ur parents were in need for the money?? what will happen when you grow older and if u r in their shoes and your own childern didn't want help you? after u raised them up and took care of them? i think u should save them some money for their needs and give them every month or anything else, like what if you tried to cook them dinner and step by them one night to have dinner all of you "you, your children, your in laws?

  my mother is old now and she can't work so i try help her as i can, give her pocket money to buy what she needs, sometimes she asks for the money as if i'm her slave or something but you know what? i just help her cuz i remember that someday i was soooooo weak when she helped me and changed my diapers... i hope it makes sense

  God bless

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  Posted by Wed Aug 13, 2008 3:18pm PDT

  HELLO!!!

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  Posted by hanley Wed Aug 27, 2008 10:00pm PDT

  thanx she for the advice

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