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Friday, November 27, 2009

Sandra Day O'Connor is no feminist

by Risa Green (Tales from the Mommy Track)

Last week, in an interview in the New York Times Magazine, Sandra Day O’Connor refused to be a labeled a feminist. Which, I have to tell you, I thought was kind of weird, considering that she was, um, the first woman to sit on the Supreme Court. Plus, she said that she cares “very much about women and their progress.” Which to me, ya’ know, sounds kind of like feminism.

According to Wikipedia, feminism is “the belief that women should have equal political, social, sexual, intellectual and economic rights to men.” I have to say, it sounds pretty benign. I mean, with the exception of some members of fundamentalist Christian sects, what woman doesn’t hold that belief? So why, then, the reluctance of O’Connor to be labeled?

I spent a good part of this week discussing this with some of my very smart friends, and the consensus seems to be that you can’t call yourself a feminist if you also call yourself a conservative, because, apparently, the word “feminist” is owned by liberals. It’s something to do with bra burning back in those crazy ‘60s, when all of the feminists were hippies who spent their free time having sex and staging protests. So if you’re a Democrat and you care very much about women and their progress, then you’re a feminist. But if you’re a Republican and you care very much about women and their progress, then you’re not. I think my very smart friends might be right about this, in part.

For women of a certain age (O’Connor is 76), the association between feminism and hippie liberalism may be, perhaps, simply too great to overcome. And for the women were the hippies (or chose not to be), the concept of feminism may just be too raw, still, for them to ever consider it in anything but political terms. But what about for younger women, who weren’t hippies, and who weren’t even born yet when the hippie feminists were setting their undergarments on fire in 1960’s?

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Risa Green, author of Tales from the Mommy Track on MommyTrackd.com, lives in Los Angeles. In the last four years, she has produced two children, called Harper and Davis, and two novels, called Notes from the Underbelly and Tales from the Crib. She is currently working on a third (novel not child).
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  • laurel's Avatar
    Posted by laurel Mon Mar 30, 2009 11:32pm PDT

    conflict of interest

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  • WilliamM's Avatar
    Posted by WilliamM Tue Mar 31, 2009 12:57am PDT

    Did you read the rest of the Wiki article? Including the first sentence?

    "Feminism is the name given to any system of thinking that recognizes the dominant ideology as oppressive to women..."

    Maybe she disagrees with that?

    Feminism doesn't seem to be a monolithic "establishment", though some feminists, particularly the radical ones, seem to think that it must be---that it's theirs and only they get to define it.

    John Maynard Keynes once said that he was not a Keynesian...meaning that he did not want to be associated with the ideology that others had made of his theories. Perhaps Justice O'Connor meant her remark in the same way.

    Maybe some intrepid journalist should ask her. Instead of obsessing over what the Octomom or Paris Hilton is doing this week...

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  • B. J.'s Avatar
    Posted by B. J. Tue Mar 31, 2009 5:41am PDT

    Perhaps Her Honor wants to avoid being labeled because she'd like to be seen as a fair and experience judge - one without an agenda or any axes to grind. I'm sure it was a difficult road to becoming the first woman Supreme Court Judge. I believe she got there on her merits, not her gender, so maybe she'd like people to see her in that light. Perhaps, she doesn't wish to become the stereotypical "I'm a woman and now that I have power, we're going to make up for all those wrongs of the past." "Feminist" just might be too limiting of a term for her. Maybe she cares about the plight of all people and how her decisions will affect society - like a good judge should.

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  • Rowdygirl's Avatar
    Posted by Rowdygirl Tue Mar 31, 2009 6:25am PDT

    Why do we have to be labeled at all? Once you accept a label, you're forever tied to that.

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  • Mark's Avatar
    Posted by Mark Tue Mar 31, 2009 7:18am PDT

    U5347U

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  • Spam I Am's Avatar
    Posted by Spam I Am Tue Mar 31, 2009 8:30am PDT

    I was about to post, but trebuchet, B J , and Rowdygirl beat me to it.

    Well put, all of you. This is Shine at its best.

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  • 's Avatar
    Posted by Tue Mar 31, 2009 8:52pm PDT

    thats good info

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  • Victoria's Avatar
    Posted by Victoria Wed Apr 1, 2009 6:30am PDT

    many women dont want to be labled as feminist because of all the stigma that goes along with it. if you tell someone that you are a femenist, they automatically think they know all your views and stances because they know what "feminists" believe. Thats why lables are generally misleading.

    And why are we taking our definition of feminist of wiki? feminism to every woman is different. its not one definition of one website.

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