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Sunday, November 8, 2009

Don't post vacation plans on Twitter

Here's why.

Woman using computer

Woman using computer

Lori Getz: Did you hear about the Arizona man who tweeted about being on vacation -- then came home to find his house had been robbed? Well, I did, and it started me thinking about how publicly we live our lives, and questioning whether or not it's a dangerous lifestyle.

So I did some investigating. I pulled up Twitter's search engine and typed "vacation." Simple enough. I quickly learned that on the day of my search, six people were either traveling to or traveling back from vacation. I then Googled a few of them and actually found two home addresses linked to the users on vacation. Could it be that easy? Yep!

Now for those of you who are concerned that I am giving the thieves ideas, it's too late. These thieves are not even cloaked in black ski masks hiding in the dark shadows. They are just hanging out online in places where people are talking about their "status."

Teenagers use Twitter, Facebook, and MySpace as their social calendars and keep their friends up to date about where they are going and what they are doing at all times. It's pretty voyeuristic, but it is reality. We need to mention to them that it is NOT a good idea to post private information in their status bars.

Now, do I fault Twitter for the man in Arizona's trouble? Of course not! That would be like being upset at my house if I decided to post a note on the front door saying I'm gone for the week, and then come home to find the place was ransacked.

Twitter is a powerful tool, and it has been instrumental in changing how we disseminate information -- worthy information. In fact, when the attacks in Mumbai occurred, you could follow it live on Twitter with real-time updates from people experiencing the event. (Not to mention the recent Iran protests, where Twitter was instrumental in not only keeping Iranians informed, but updating U.S. media.) PR firms and marketing gurus love their ability to send out tweets about the latest update or event. In fact, I'll be sending out a tweet of my own when this article is published.

It's not that we need to stop using this social medium, we just need to be thoughtful about how we use it. None of this has to be dangerous. We just need to be well informed of the risks in order to make the best decision possible. Me, personally, I think I'll keep the vacation information off the 'net, just to be safe!

lori getz
Lori Getz is the founder of Cyber Education Consultants and speaks to students, parents and educators about Internet safety, security and ethics. She has a Master of Arts in Educational Technology from San Diego State University and is certified by isafe.org as an Internet Safety Specialist. Her mission is to help bridge the gap between a young generation of digital natives and their parents and teachers. She is the mother of one and lives in Los Angeles with her husband.

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  • Rowdygirl's Avatar
    Posted by Rowdygirl Wed Jul 15, 2009 5:31am PDT

    I don't use Twitter or MySpace; my profile on Facebook has no pictures and very little info.

    I've been teased about this and asked why I don't participate. I'm afraid, plain and simple. Anything you put out there is public knowledge and never to be taken back; no matter what the "experts" say.

    The friend who teased me puts all his info online, including pics of his baby daughter, and I think it's a huge mistake. I would rather be boring and safe, than sorry later.

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    Posted by Rowdygirl Wed Jul 15, 2009 5:31am PDT

    I don't use Twitter or MySpace; my profile on Facebook has no pictures and very little info.

    I've been teased about this and asked why I don't participate. I'm afraid, plain and simple. Anything you put out there is public knowledge and never to be taken back; no matter what the "experts" say.

    The friend who teased me puts all his info online, including pics of his baby daughter, and I think it's a huge mistake. I would rather be boring and safe, than sorry later.

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  • B. J.'s Avatar
    Posted by B. J. Wed Jul 15, 2009 6:13am PDT

    Rowdygirl,

    How refreshing! It's great to see there are still a few sane people out there that understand the meaning (and value) of "privacy" and "discretion". Good for you!

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  • yardosaur's Avatar
    Posted by yardosaur Wed Jul 15, 2009 7:02am PDT

    Rowdygirl and B.J.,

    Keep in mind that you can control who views your information, pictures, updates, etc. on facebook. Facebook is pretty good with letting the user control their privacy settings. Mine is completely private and I am only friends with people I know well.

    Not a lot of people are aware of it....I think that is the major problem when starting a social networking account. People start posting info and not controls who sees it.

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  • Jett's Avatar
    Posted by Jett Wed Jul 15, 2009 7:45am PDT

    Good advice! Also a good reason not to say where you're going to be and at which time! I'll make plans with friends on Facebook, but I never say exactly where I'll be. You never know who will read about it and follow you there.

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  • Ashley's Avatar
    Posted by Ashley Wed Jul 15, 2009 8:16am PDT

    Everyone just loves to jump on the technology bandwagon these days because nobody can stand feeling left out. "Do you have a Facebook? Get ahold of me on Myspace! Follow me on Twitter!" No one ever thinks about the repercussions of anything of this until its too late. People just say, "look what we can do!" But they never stop to think "SHOULD we?" Should we REALLY be putting all our information on a webpage? People say they use these websites to "keep in touch with friends." So why would you need to tell everyone your sexual orientation, how much money you make, etc., etc.? Look at all the crime these sites have brought. Stalking, kidnapping, murder and robbery? SHOULD we really be giving out all this information for everyone to see? SHOULD we be telling everyone what we are doing/thinking/wearing/saying every ten minutes? That's fine if you feel you need validation by thinking anyone cares, but don't be shocked when you get robbed!

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  • Dubs's Avatar
    Posted by Dubs Wed Jul 15, 2009 3:55pm PDT

    Twitter, MySpace, Facebook

    I personally don't use them, just don't care. I don't follow tech fads. For family and friends with long distance relationships I can understand the appeal; however, most times its for people that crave attention...

    "Hey look at me! *update* This is what I'm doing now *update*. I just got off the toilet *update*. I shouldn't of ate those beans *update*. That one loser girl in school we should TOTALLY find a way to humiliate her so she commits suicide. *update*" texttexttexttexttext........*rolleyes*

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  • LB's Avatar
    Posted by LB Thu Jul 16, 2009 6:49pm PDT

    I only use Facebook to keep in touch with graduated friends. It's a good website if you use it correctly and take advantage of privacy settings.

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  • Well...'s Avatar
    Posted by Well... Fri Jul 17, 2009 5:06am PDT

    Duh. Do you realize even with privacy settings if you trust someone who trust someone you wouldn't your info is out. Your info is out once you release it. Look at that word lease(to take responsibility for as in a space) then to release is to relinquish control. Social networking is the tree of knowledge of good and evil. Discretion and privacy are right you guys.

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