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Friday, November 27, 2009

A Retreat from Breast Cancer

As a massage therapist and Pilates instructor, Bridget Hughes was shocked to learn she had breast cancer after dedicating herself to health and fitness. After a two-and-a-half-year battle with the disease, which included two lumpectomies, chemotherapy and a double mastectomy, she is now cancer-free and stronger than ever. As a result of this experience, Bridget founded The Pastures, a weekend retreat in the Berkshires that assists women with breast cancer both physically and mentally. The survivor speaks openly about how the diagnosis changed her life and her mission to support other women through the recovery process.

Q: How does it feel to be a breast cancer survivor?
A:
I am so much more grateful for every day that I have. I definitely don't sweat the small stuff anymore. I see life in the bigger picture. In a way, my eyes have been opened and I'm much more comfortable in myself. I really believe in the power of healing and being able to get past it and inspire another person to do the same thing.

Q: What inspired you to start The Pastures?
A:
What I really wanted to do was provide a space for women to come and support each other because I was longing for that during my recovery. The retreat provides a nurturing space for women to get together in a supportive and educational environment.

Q: How does your background in massage therapy and Pilates factor into the retreat?
A:
I'm a person that's very much body-centric. I already help women who are getting ready to go into surgery or getting back on their feet post surgery. The retreat allows me to do that on a bigger scale and offer different classes, such as yoga, Pilates, dance, movement, cooking and nutrition.

Q: How can women prepare their bodies for treatment?
A:
Cardio, cardio, cardio. Prepare the body like you're a prizefighter going into the ring because it really is about upper body and arm strength. Eating a clean diet, cutting back on alcohol and sugar, or eliminating those things altogether. Visualizing that you're going to come out of this on the other end.

Q: What advice do you have for women fighting the disease?
A:
Never lose that sense of hope and just keep up the fight. If there's a small thing that they can focus on everyday to keep them from thinking that they're being swallowed by breast cancer and it defines them. To think that one day this will all be behind you. It sounds really ironic, but it's sort of a gift. I'm stronger and healthier than I've ever been in my life.


~Alla Byrne

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  • RickiK's Avatar
    Posted by RickiK Mon Oct 5, 2009 3:17pm PDT

    I celebrate my survival, this is year 5 and so a big one. I applaud and love all the different ways people have found to help those going through the fight! I wish something such as this had been available when I was struggling, What was available was way more than I could have afforded, given the loss of my career, and the expenses of being ill. All this said, I have a bone to pick, please don't see this as negativity, but rather a place to start for some of us, and a place for some of us not to feel so alone! I won't get into this, other than to say I had an early Breast Cancer, which was treated with Taxol despite my immediate reaction to it. Not knowing that there were other options, I now have peripheral neuropathy. Unlike what I was told, it didn't go away, but got worse, until I was unable to walk. This lead Doctors to believe I must have diabetes, which I do not have,and other doctors to be afraid to help with a broken toe, for the fear of circulatory problems associated with diabetes. After much of my own research I am now receiving medication that allows me to live a more productive life, although, walking can be difficult at times as can my lower body strength. I understand that this is a a chemical poisoning and while it shares the nerve damage, it does not share the circulation problems (and some of my fear, early on, that I might not have feet at some point, as some diabetics circulatory system gets so bad that they loss their feet). I see all these wonderful stories of those who have been through several years of fighting off this disease, double mastectomy and much more and have survived. It excites me to see that more of us are surviving this disease which only 20 years ago many might not have. At the same time, I feel like I am an orphan, in this fight. People climb mountains, they take part in all sorts of physical activities, that might not have even considered doing before, but now take pride in accomplishing. It is these stories that I see published here and in many other places. What about people like me? I could use a weekend away to work on feelings, or improve the strength of my body, but still no one even talks about what can go wrong, while maintaining your life! Yes, it is important and the number 1 outcome, to be alive. Once you are a survivor, now it is time to live. Yet, everyday, and every hour of everyday I am in pain. That is something that must be addressed, those of us who are happy to be alive, who would have it no other way, but now must face a new enemy and could use some help doing so! That needs to start with someone saying not all of us will climb mountains, not all of us will have body strength, its a miracle to be alive but not yet a miracle of climbing mountains. I hope more people will come forward and talk of the miracle to be alive and the struggle of living a near normal life. I would like to see some people make monetary contributions, to provide a refuge from everyday life, and a place to muster up positive feelings about ones body, which is something that has to done on a daily, perhaps moment by moment basis for those who have suffered life changing experiences trying to stay alive

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  • Amy's Avatar
    Posted by Amy Wed Oct 7, 2009 9:16am PDT

    Ricki, I couldn't agree more. I have many friends, though they are survivors, they have suffered the lingering effects of either the treatment, which allowed their survival, or from physical and emotional scars of the disease. They have discovered something which has allowed them to manage some of that. I would be happy to introduce you to them and have them share. I've never posted a comment like this so I don't know how it works but if you would like to contact me, send me an email, rjbal@aol.com. I'd love to help.

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