It's not a bad thing to have a big personality. But maybe Monday isn't the day to flaunt it. It's also not the day to ask for a raise. The boss seems to be in a bit of a grouchy mood, and your best bet is going to be to lay low at work and just get the job done. (You can always ask about a raise next week.) On Thursday or Friday, you're going to learn a secret about a good friend of yours that's going to make your head spin. You may spend the weekend lost in conversation with them.